Traditional marriage is becoming blurred in the 21st century. Do a Google search using the term “same sex marriage” and it appears that the dominoes of traditional biblical marriage are falling even in some Christian circles. Unfortunately there is no real debate since in recent years only one side of the issue is tolerated by those who seek to change thousands of years of reality, family and social structure, and scientific fact. This is the first article on the issue on the Simple Discipleship blog and a difficult subject it is in our time. It is troubling to see so many Christians and churches yielding to social and government pressure to change their doctrine of marriage as established in the Bible.
On June 26, 2013 the Supreme Court of the United States (SCOTUS) ruled for same sex marriage rights and against traditional marriage. In fact, Justice Scalia in his dissent described the majority ruling in the following manner: “By formally declaring anyone opposed to same-sex marriage an enemy of human decency the majority arms well every challenger to a state law restricting marriage to its traditional definition (NewYorkTimes.com).” As a direct result of the SCOTUS ruling, social and theological liberals will claim that anyone affirming traditional marriage is “an enemy of the human race.” Justice Scalia plainly said so. Implications will certainly impact American culture…specifically the church. This writer believes that as the state (federal government) will gradually move to connect non-profit tax-exempt 501C3 status to equal rights law, including same sex marriage. Pastors and churches may be hounded with expensive litigation for preaching and teaching a biblical view of marriage, refusing to hire gays, and/or for refusing to allow or conduct same sex marriages. This may be the beginning of persecution of Christianity in the United States resulting in a proliferation of the house-church movement. House church networks may be a way for the conservative church to prepare for a culture and government that is hostile. Don’t think for a moment that first amendment rights will protect Christians and the church because the current movement of SCOTUS will shape that which will be tolerated under the first amendment. Consider, a photographer in New Mexico, a florist in Washington, and a baker in Colorado have already been victims of intolerant coercion and religious institutions will not be left out of the pressure. With the force of Caesar (the federal government) on their side, all religious groups and business entrepreneurs holding to traditional marriage may be persecuted and prosecuted.
One might ask what this writer has to contribute to the discussion. As one holding a medical technology degree along with degrees in Christian theology, this writer’s argument will consider both, science and biblical theology. To cut to the essence of the argument in favor of traditional marriage as being between a male and female are three primary factors of holiness, creation, and the family.
Don’t think for a moment that first amendment rights will protect Christians and the church in the future because the current movement of SCOTUS will shape that which will be tolerated under the first amendment.
THE HOLINESS FACTOR
Most arguments in favor of changing the definition of what constitutes marriage begin with an anthropocentric focus such as “What makes me happy?” Therein exists the problem of reconciling one’s religious faith with one’s desires. When one seeks to frame or reframe their religion to fit their personal desires they are defeating the purpose of having a relationship with God. While the individual person is important to God as related to the Christian faith, God is still the focus…theocentric rather than anthropocentric. With an anthropocentric focus, people attempt to bring God down to a human level and minimize God’s expectations of those who desire a relationship with him. On the other hand, God already has a standard and unlike the currency standards or man’s laws, God’s laws and expectations do not change. People often change what we wish God allowed and expected but that fact never truly affects God’s already established standards. People and society often change what they want God to expect of them based on feelings, pressures, and societal evolution. Yet, the fact remains that these anthropocentric efforts have no affect to change God’s standards, laws, or expectations.
Stated in the form of a command, God says at least twenty times in the Bible, “Be holy.” Holiness requires that believers agree with God in regard to sin. Thus, those who maintain a relationship with God in good fellowship agree with God as related to God’s standards, laws, and expectations. Reinterpreting, redactionist translation, or simply ignoring biblical statements about homosexuality is an attempt to acquire God’s affirmation, holiness, and blessing without conforming to his expectations. Does God love gays and lesbians? Absolutely! God loves them as well as murderers, adulterers, thieves, and all sinners but he does not change his expectations of repentance, relationship, and holiness.
People cannot effectively dictate to God what he will accept as appropriate behavior.
God’s expectations of holiness work in tandem with God’s creation as well as the family which is the first building block of community and society.
THE CREATION FACTOR
Virtually every discussion of same sex marriage ignores the absolute fact that same sex intercourse does not work as related to procreation. Just because a young man says he feels like he would be more comfortable as a woman does not change his gender. He may have operations and hormone therapy to move his physical system to be more feminine and he may increasingly adapt his behavior and appearance to be feminine. However, genetically and anatomically he remains a male. We could also postulate this argument from the perspective of a female with a desire to be a male.
Virtually every discussion of same sex marriage ignores the absolute fact that same sex intercourse does not work as related to procreation.
Reports of “men having babies” after having sex reassignment surgery and drug therapy are greatly exaggerated. In all of the recorded cases of men having a baby, the subjects were born as female and still had a functioning womb in which to carry and deliver the infant to term. Yet the parent delivering the child appears in a photograph to be a male and has changed their name to that of a male. People will go to great effort and expenditure to achieve their personal vision and desire even if it is still a lie. In each of these examples you may find in the news, the person’s real gender remains what it was at their birth no matter what they have done to change it. Do an autopsy 100 years from now on any person who has had sex change operation or drug therapy and the bone structure and DNA will show the person’s gender at birth regardless of what they have done to alter it. Sex change is an attempt to acquire God’s blessing without conforming to creation. Two passages of the Bible are instructive here:
Romans 1:20-32 20For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even His eternal power and Godhead, so that they are without excuse, 21because, although they knew God, they did not glorify Him as God, nor were thankful, but became futile in their thoughts, and their foolish hearts were darkened. 22Professing to be wise, they became fools, 23and changed the glory of the incorruptible God into an image made like corruptible man — and birds and four-footed animals and creeping things. 24Therefore God also gave them up to uncleanness, in the lusts of their hearts, to dishonor their bodies among themselves, 25who exchanged the truth of God for the lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen. 26For this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature. 27Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due. 28And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a debased mind, to do those things which are not fitting; 29being filled with all unrighteousness, sexual immorality, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, evil-mindedness; they are whisperers, 30backbiters, haters of God, violent, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,31undiscerning, untrustworthy, unloving, unforgiving, unmerciful;32who, knowing the righteous judgment of God, that those who practice such things are deserving of death, not only do the same but also approve of those who practice them. NKJV
This first passage relates to the issue of homosexuality acted out against God’s creation and standards while attempting to dictate to humanity, society, and God what should be acceptable. The large context is important since some proponents of gay rights have reinterpreted Romans 1:26-28 to exclude monogamous homosexual union. The passage is clear that there are other sins included in God’s right judgment on this point and each are against his creation and expectations, not to mention commandments.
Then there is the next passage:
Ro 9:20-21 20But indeed, O man, who are you to reply against God? Will the thing formed say to him who formed it, “Why have you made me like this?” 21Does not the potter have power over the clay, from the same lump to make one vessel for honor and another for dishonor? NKJV
The previously mentioned women who have attempted to change their gender as the media celebrates “men having babies” is a good example of “the thing formed saying to him who formed it, “Why have you made me like this?” It is a clear rejection of God, his standards, and his law. Furthermore, to demand changes and to impose their will upon society flows into the final point—the Family factor.
THE FAMILY FACTOR
As we have seen, a same sex couple who desire to raise a child together must yield to God’s creation laws and even natural laws in order to obtain a child. Thus, at the outset they are contradicting the very principles used to argue their case for marriage rights. They are attempting to acquire God’s blessing without conforming to God’s laws of society. One article on the “men having babies” celebrated the child as having two fathers, which of course is not really possible. God set up the basic building block of society as the father and mother of children. Consider the Ten Commandments regarding number five- “Honor your father and mother.” The intent is consistent with God’s holiness and his creation. Children can develop well in spite of having a single parent, two men, two women, adoptive or step parents raising them. However, God’s ideal is that the job is the responsibility of the biological father (male) and mother (female). Once these three factors—holiness, creation, and family—are abrogated, there will be consequences across the board to society, the nation, and people of faith.
CONCLUSION
Once the laws of marriage are codified to recognize same sex marriage, the laws will likely be challenged further. Liberalism is never satisfied with current boundaries and is intolerant of intolerance. The Baptist Press stated a concern that polygamy might be the next issue and of course bestiality and the age at which one may marry will likely be challenged. In fact laws in the uniformed code of military justice were recently changed on this point as the Senate approved a bill legalizing sodomy and bestiality in the U.S. military. While opponents of same-sex marriage may express incredulity at further changes in the laws, who could have foreseen thirty years ago that this discussion would be at the forefront in 2013? Will the people of faith stand up?
Many will conclude that the church going underground in the United States is an impossibility. However, consider that as recently as thirty years ago we could not imagine the current discussion. Church, get ready; Jesus is coming soon!
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Dr. Tom Cocklereece is CEO of RENOVA Coaching and Consulting, LLC. He has 20 years experience as a pastor, and is an author, certified professional coach and coach trainer, leadership specialist, and a member Coach/Teacher/Speaker for the John Maxwell Team
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