DISCIPLESHIP INCLUDES ENCOURAGING JEREMIAH PASTORS

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THE FAITHFULNESS OF JEREMIAH

The prophet Jeremiah is known as the “weeping prophet” because of his expressed emotions in his second book titled Lamentations. The book of Jeremiah covers the ministry of the prophet as he called the nation of Israel to righteousness. He served the Lord for over 40 years faithfully proclaiming the word of the Lord but not once is it recorded that he inspired even one person to follow him and return to the Lord. Forty years! That’s 2080 Sabbath day messages and 14,610 days if he took no holidays and that also includes leap year calculations.

Many pastors perhaps reflect on Jeremiah and his seemingly unfruitful ministry of 40 years as they do their Monday morning quarterbacking and coaching virtual film playback of Sunday. Many walk a lonely path through the days week after week and some…year after year. Many are perplexed at the apparent deep faith of the prophet. We wonder at the faithfulness of Jeremiah as he ministered faithfully for 40 years as it seemed that none of his contemporaries listened…but what Jeremiah may or may not have been aware of was that people of faith would listen to him down through the ages through verses such as Jeremiah 29:11

For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the LORD, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope. (NKJV)

Indeed, through the pressures of day to day ministry it is difficult to maintain perspective on the eternal.

THE FAITHFULNESS OF PASTORS

Within church culture leaders of large and mega churches are celebrated as icons of successful ministry, as it appears that they have mastered the pressures of ministry, perhaps better than Jeremiah though to their credit most would not make such a claim. The great ministry leaders are visible and their teachings are highly desired among the many struggling pastors. There are many un-named pastors and ministry leaders who serve almost invisibly and receiving little credit in this life even though they are good leaders, loving pastors, and great preachers. They are my heroes!

Granted that there are a few lax and lazy church leaders who may be contended for their church to go for three years with no baptisms but these are few and far between. Our church culture seems to assume that every pastor of a small struggling church is disobedient, subpar, or flawed in some way. Perhaps they are servants of the Lord serving as Jeremiahs to their current generation. They weep for their sheep, they pray and cry for spiritual awakening among their people, they hunger for signs that someone is listening. However, privately they suffer from depression, discouragement, and despair. There are many reasons pastors feel that they might want to quit (It’s Monday and Your Pastor wants to Quit), notwithstanding the constant feeling of ineffectiveness.

If you are a Jeremiah Pastor, take heart. Remain faithful and the Lord will bless you in his time. Find another pastor with whom to pray. If you can, obtain a ministry coach who may be able to help you improve as you use this time as preparation for a more fruitful time later. You might consider joining or starting a pastor’s peer group for prayer and group study where you will discover that you are not struggling alone.

If you are a pastor who is experiencing the success in ministry and have many followers, there are some things you can do to help the Jeremiah Pastors. First, remember the more humble roots of your beginning in ministry. Pray for the Lord to reveal to you a pastor that you will offer prayer and mentoring/coaching. It is discouraging for lonely leaders to seek out a coach/mentor and be turned down. Find someone who genuinely NEEDS and will respond to your encouragement and spend some time investing in them. By all means pray for the Jeremiah Pastors and resist the subtle put-downs of “small church” pastors.

10 WAYS TO ENCOURAGE PASTORS

1. Offer a special word of encouragement at a time other than as you walk out the church door on Sunday.
2. Be sure to include the pastor’s spouse and children as you encourage. If a pastor is experiencing discouragement and depression, his wife is also bearing the burden.
3. Be sure that expressions are authentic. One church gave the pastor a gift that by necessity included his name but the middle initial was incorrect. Another church celebrated the pastor and his wife’s 25^th wedding anniversary but put the wrong date on the gift silver platter. These mistakes and lack of attention to detail can hurt more than they help.
4. Wake up during the Sunday sermon. Seeing people sleeping during a sermon is discouraging and it is rude. Maybe the pastor is not a Billy Graham but come on!
5. Apply the biblical principles the pastor teaches and praise God while honoring your pastor for his teaching ministry. The response of the congregation may begin growth which will do the most to encourage the pastor.
6. After a significant time of service, lead your church to provide a real vacation or even a sabbatical for study and rest.
7. Celebrate major accomplishments of your pastor. One pastor’s achievement of a doctoral degree went almost unnoticed and for another a book publication was just another day to the congregation.
8. Take care of your pastor and his family. Does he receive regular increases in salary? Does the church contribute to his retirement fund? Does the church provide a self-employment tax offset? Does the church provide for significant reimbursement for ministry expenses.
9. Pray for your pastor and his family. No, this is not an obligatory item on the list. Suggest to the elders and deacons that they have a special prayer for the pastor and his family. Do this as a surprise during a worship service.
10. What is your pastor’s Love Language?

 

• Receiving gifts- Give a spontaneous gift card for Starbucks or a bookstore; on major anniversaries give something significant.
• Words of affirmation- Creatively encourage the one who encourages you
• Spend time with me- Serve side-by-side on visitation and mission projects
• Acts of service- Take some of the load of ministry or do something to help with something at the pastor’s home. Of course you will need to clear this perhaps through the pastor’s family…things such as yard work, maintenance, and so on.
• Physical touch- This one may be complicated but handshakes, appropriate hugs, and other expressions of appreciation will suffice.

The Jeremiahs serving our churches are some of the hardest working and faithful leaders among us. Contrary to popular world opinion and among some high-profile leaders, small church leaders are often good leaders, effective preachers, and loving pastors. Jeremiah pastors are truly heroes.

Add to the list: What are some additional ways to honor and encourage the unsung Jeremiah pastors?

Leader4Leaders Blessings!

Dr. Tom Cocklereece

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Dr. Tom Cocklereece is Author of “Simple Discipleship,” and a contributing writer forwww.Linked2Leadership.com Blogazine. He is a pastor, leadership coach, and ministry development specialist.

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Good to Great: Insights from Jim Collins @ Catalyst 2008

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I just left the Catalyst 2008 conference sponsored by Pastor Andy Stanley’s North Point Church in Alpharetta, GA. There were over 12,000 people from all over North America attending with standing room only. The music was great for those of us who think under 40, which includes me. It was LOUD, inspiring, and did I say LOUD? Pastor Andy Stanley presented a prophetic message from Nehemiah on authentic leadership specifically having to do with Moral Authority. Read the fifth chapter of Nehemiah and you will find that the Jews in Israel at that time were living on the edge. They were living from pay day to pay day, they had leveraged their land and homes with high interest loans from Gentiles, and they had even leveraged their children and wives for needed money to survive. Then their own leaders began the same deplorable practice. Sound familiar? Pastor Andy was rather prophetic as the conference material and his message was pre-printed several weeks before the current economic crisis.

The featured speaker of the morning session was Jim Collins author of Good to Great. Remember that he was speaking to over 12K church leaders, but he did a very good job of making his leadership principles relevant to all of us. You have probably read his books but I thought I would share his thoughts as best I can with some of my own expounding. His comment precedes mine in the following recap.

• “Good is the enemy of great.” Most of our churches are not great because they are good, and content being so. This is not a commentary on the God we serve because he is indeed GREAT. However, as I have observed in my other blogs, most churches are satisfied with the status quo. Note that I did not say that most pastors are content with it. Like me they serve underachieving congregations, but we keep trying to increase expectations.
• “Greatness has nothing to do with circumstances.” I take this to mean that every church has the potential to become great; reference my previous article (https://drthomreece.wordpress.com/2008/10/09/turnaround-churches-an-untapped-source/) Even we as pastors sometimes do the blame game as to why our churches are not great…yet. Jim Collins rightly suggested that circumstances are not the problem. Of course he promoted the concepts of strong leadership that that the right people are in the right seats on the bus, and this is a result of…
• “It is a function of a culture of discipline and right choices.” Like Collins, I am a student of shaping culture in a positive manner which requires both discipline and right choices. Shaping culture in this manner is not something that occurs quickly. William Young, the author of The Shack was also a speaker at Catalyst. He said that he is about fifty years old and could not have written his book two years ago, since it was the product of time, maturing faith, and experiences. Those dimensions did not come to fruition until recently. We all sometimes wish we could be younger but with our present culmination of wisdom and experiences. Of course it is not possible. Then there is Collin’s illustration of…
• “The flywheel- successes are the result of many years of discipline and right choices.” Picture your ministry or career as a flywheel that you constantly turn with great effort. Once it is spinning with some velocity (success and greatness), ask yourself which program or effort made it spin. Of course it took many years and pushes to get it going. Many pastors and church leaders make the mistake of looking for that one program that will get the flywheel moving and keep it moving. IT DOESN’T WORK THAT WAY! Simple Discipleship by the way is a flywheel process! Using SD will not create rapid results without great effort!
• “The great fall when they over reach.” (When Collins said this I immediately thought he was talking about—a lack of humility, and he was.) “When you compromise on having the right people in the right seats you will fall. ‘Who‘ is all important. Don’t hire the wrong who simply because you are too impatient to find the right who. Who is more important than what until you get the right who. The G2G leaders were Level 5 leaders. The signature characteristic of Level 5 leaders is HUMILITY. Connecting values with deeds. L5 is not about charisma or personality. The test of a leader is how well the organization does when you—the leader—are not there. Flywheel of the faith is Christ, but the flywheel of the church is the pastor.” WOW! There is a lot in there. I was taking notes and adlibbing so fast that I’m not sure which thoughts are his and which are my own. The issue of humility is important to me as I have also discovered his concept to be true. In fact it is a part of the Simple Discipleship Leadership Training Model (https://drthomreece.wordpress.com/2008/08/22/the-power-of-coaching/) Then there is Collin’s “Hedgehog” concept…
• “The Hedgehog concept includes a focus on three essential things: 1) what you are deeply passionate about; 2) what drives your economic engine; and 3) what you can be best at in the world. The hedgehog is about disciplined action.” Now let’s apply Collin’s concept to the church. Many church leaders think their church is deeply passionate about knowing Christ and making him known, but they some are just going through the motions. The economic engine of the church is not the offerings as some mistake; it is the people! And for number three, most churches have never tried to discover what they are best at in their own contextual ministry.
  
• Then Collins said something I found to be profound: “Leaders should have a to-do list and a to-stop-doing list.” He suggested it is like balancing both sides of the accounting ledger and is a function of discipline.
• Finally, Collins reminded the audience: “and…what never changes. We confuse values with practices. Denominations are practices but the faith is values. Every generation must create its own practices that cut across generations and transgress time. He stated that each leader must discover their own BHAGG (BIG HAIRY AUDACIOUS GOD-SIZED GOAL). Many churches never seek to know their BHAGG. They assume it is simply gathering to hear the Great Commission, but they rarely set a GOAL.

Collins listed several succinct points for leaders to consider:

1. How many key seats are on the bus? How many have the right people?
2. Build a personal board of directors. Get young people in your face. Get out of the way for the next generation.
3. When filling a position, What job is the wrong question. Who is more important.
4. Use your council by asking them questions. Spend as much time listening to them as you do talking to them.
5. Take time to think. Turn off the electronics. (Quiet time)
6. Level 5 leaders are so committed to their cause that they are also willing to go through the pain to succeed. (Most are not willing to struggle, suffer, and fail several times to get it right.)
7. WE ARE NOT IMPRISONED BY OUR MISTAKES- UNLESS WE CHOOSE THAT RESULT.
8. “Statues are perfected on all sides- even the sides that will not be seen.” Attention to detail and discipline.
9. The right people don’t need to be managed. Sometimes you have the right person on the bus but they are in the wrong seat. The moment you have to tightly manage someone you probably made a hiring mistake.
10. Everyone should be able to articulate their job purpose and function without a reference to their title.
11. If you have more than three priorities, you have no priorities.

I thoroughly enjoyed the morning at Catalyst 2008.

SD Blessings!  

Dr. Tom Cocklereece